Showing posts with label New Year's Resolutions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label New Year's Resolutions. Show all posts

Thursday, January 15, 2026

A Better You in 31 Days

For many of us, 2025 was a challenging year - and we might be approaching 2026 with more trepidation and less hope.

But hope, even a very tiny, flickering hope, can inspire us in lifechanging ways.

And whether times are favorable or not, we can still choose how our past and present circumstances can mold the person we become in the future.

So here's an opportunity for becoming a better you.

This January, the BryonySeries calendar is offering thirty-one suggestions for positive change in the new year.

Simply visit the BryonySeries calendar, pick a date (any date or the current date), read the prompt, and follow the instructions.

Yes, each activity does link back to a BryonySeries book. But that's only for context. You don't need to click the link at all (unless you're curious).

Even one of these activities is a priceless gift you can give to yourself in 2026.

Let's begin today!




Monday, January 29, 2024

January Calendar

Like many author websites, the BryonySeries website has an event calendar.

But our calendar is not like regular event calendars.

When Timothy started redesigning the website (a very fluid process he began several years ago), he created a calendar that had the fun and mystery of the old advent-style calendars.

These advent calendars have little doors. Behind the doors are pictures or sayings or even chocolate.

Timothy's vision was certainly to include events on the event dates.

But on the other dates, he wanted to add games, crafts, music, activities, science experiments, recipes and bits of inspiration that pick up themes to one or more of our books.

We coordinate the calendar (as much as possible,) to "book themes of the day." More on that tomorrow.

I finally finished January's calendar over the weekend, and I encourage you to check it out.

Yes, I know I'm behind. January is nearly over, right? I'm blaming holidays and another hospitalization on my tardiness.

And you may wonder: What is the point of looking at it now?

Actually, now is the best time.

The end of January is a weary time for many people.

They're already tired of winter (although winter's barely begun) and the shine of new year's resolutions are tarnished and dull.

So every suggestion behind each door of the BryonySeries calendar provides a simple thought of activity accompanied by a fresh perspective.

Who knows? It might be just the thing you need to read and do today.

Check it out now. Hover over a door to open it, and have fun exploring the surprises behind each of the dates.

https://www.bryonyseries.com/calendar-of-events


The new calendar will (hopefully) be posted next weekend.


If, you know, I don't run into anymore emergencies, ugh.


Happy Monday!






Monday, January 15, 2018

A 2017 List for a 2018 Year

A few weeks ago I made a list of dangling threads from the past year, those projects half-begun in 2017 and only half-done now that it's 2018.

I've since whittled this list by a third (and attached a few more threads as my mind recollected them).

This wrapping up of the old can be more tedious than delving into the new. The sheen is worn from these scraps of projects, but the satisfaction of crossing them off the list is great, and motivation is strong.

From whence cometh this strong motivation?

My resolution of not starting another project until I've put away the old ones.

How about you? What are your plans for your leftovers?









Sunday, December 31, 2017

Thank You, Thank You

In 2010 I reluctantly started a blog because I'd read authors should have blogs.

My daughter Sarah Stegall, who was teaching herself the technical side of BryonySeries things (web design, social media, SEO, keywords, all the while collecting recipes for the BryonySeries cookbook) researched blogs, narrowed it down to WordPress and Blogger, and decided on the latter, for many reason, none of which are important here.

But I had a bigger problem. I had no idea what to write. Features, fiction: fine; ideas abound. But, blogging? Is't that like "Dear Diary," but online?

Sarah had ideas. Write about anything and everything connected to me writing: my work writing, my fiction writing, the setting, the plot, the characters, the themes (Victorian, 1970s, food, Irish, leprechauns, blood, roses, piano, white cats, fishing and fishing villages, gothic architecture, gothic literature, and so on), self-publishing, my struggles, my victories, and some of me personally.

People would want to read that? Sarah assured me they would. And she was afraid.

Still, I was afraid of being spammy, a fear that persists to this today and helps keep me on track. For instance, here's a piece I'd bookmarked four years ago: http://annerallen.com/2013/10/social-media-secrets-for-authors-par/

We decided to launch the blog Aug. 1, several months in advance of a November release date, never guessing my June surgery would be postponed until August and that the small I press that was readying Bryony for publication would push the release date out a year (and eventually go out of business).

Still afraid of running out of material, I prewrote the first month's worth of posts. Except for some exceptions in 2013 when we were losing our home, I've blogged every day. I haven't run out of ideas and have some new (and will be resurrecting some old) ideas for 2018.

Sarah and I together cheered the first couple of post views, then cheered again when views hit double digits (Ten people read it??? Really???) We cheered when we hit 50 views and when we hit 100. We celebrated 100,000 all-time views in mid-2016 and watched the numbers continue to climb.

Before the holidays, the blog averaged 13,000 views a month. And we almost closed out the year at 200,000 all-time views. I can't tell you how humbling that is.

And yes, even when one doesn't count the Throwback Thursdays (another of Sarah's ideas), some of those older posts still get views. Amazing

I'm convinced the experience Sarah received from learning this stuff helped her land the job (and manager's role) she has today in her company; I'm convinced I work as a features editor today because of the skills I acquired while writing, editing and marketing novels.

Although Sarah is now too busy to play "web administrator" to the BryonySeries anymore (her exact current title is "web administrator emeritus"), my other daughter Rebekah Baran has stepped up into that role.

Rebekah designed the current website at www.bryonyseries.com. She does most of my book formatting and cover creation. She formats and uploads the eBooks. And she's gradually teaching me how to do these things, only calling on Sarah when she runs into a snag.

I never could/can do this without my girls. Their help, expertise, willingness to learn, and ease of navigating technology is invaluable and appreciated beyond measure.

Why am I sharing all this?

Because if you're a writer, hang in there. Be persistent; be consistent. Take the long view of building a writing/editing business. While overnight successes are rare, this industry has a way of rewarding those who keep learning and improving, possibly because the competition quits too soon.

While I'm far, far, far from being a household name, I spend most of my hours (weekdays and weekends) writing and editing something, which is the career I've wanted ever since I was a little girl. The career grows a bit more each year.

If these are your goals, too, I want to help you get there. Because it's possible, you know.

If you'd like to self-publish a book this year for little cost, and you live in the Joliet area, check out this event on Jan. 11: https://goo.gl/aRY4uC

If you're a WriteOn Joliet writer, I want to hear your writing, editing, and marketing goals so we can help each other in 2018. We have local memberships (for those who can attend meetings) and remote memberships (those who live far away and cannot). So the group is open to all adults writers age 18 and up. For more information, visit www.writeonjoliet.com.

If you're a reader, I'm humbled with gratitude.

Thank you for finding something worthwhile to read here.

Thank you for checking back each day.

Both add up to encouragement to me. Page views help let me know what readers are enjoying; they help shape the future of this blog. They fuel my inspiration for yet another post on another day.

Ultimately this blog is meant to entertain you, provide you with information, share great stories from the greater Joliet community, and help connect us with each other.

So readers, if there's something you'd like to see on this blog, message me at bryonyseries@gmail.com. I'd love to hear your feedback and ideas.

For me, 2017 was a hard, challenging year for my adult children and me in terms of work. In fact, as soon as I post this blog, I'm working the rest of this day. Praise God it's work I enjoy!

But.

I'm leaving 2017 with sharper skills than I began it and so are my kids. I hope 2017 brought, for you, many blessings, even if they came disguised.

I look forward to journeying the new year with you. Here's to 2018! (virtually cliinking my coffee mug against yours).





Monday, January 2, 2017

Just For Fun: BryonySeries Characters Make New Year's Resolutions

I don't make New Year's resolutions and neither do the BryonySeries characters in any of the novels.

However if they DID make resolutions, here's what some of them might say:


Melissa Marchellis: Make John Simons forget Bryony forever and love only me.

Brian Marchellis: Study harder and learn to make a smooth béchamel sauce

Frank Marchellis: Take sensible care of my health

Darlene Marchellis: Become more organized

Snowbell: Go back in time and stay at the slumber party

Steve Barnes: Find ways to be a better man

John Simons: Attain the international status of premiere piano player

Dr. Rothgard: Find a permanent cure for vampirism, no matter the cost to human life

Henry Matthews: Acquire enough wealth to pursue hedonism forever

Kellen Wechsler: Find and destroy the redheaded "angel"

Julie Drake: Get into Harvard University's psychology program

Jack Cooper: Catch a bigger walleye than my father

Ann Dalton: Catch Jack Cooper

Katie Miller: Go steady. Any boy will do

John-Peter Simotes: Rescue the princess

Karla Dyer: Master crystallomancy

Ed Calkins: Make Ed Calkins Day a national holiday

Clancy the Clurichaun: Expand my farm

Eicheard: Breed, wantonly

Marvin Simotes: Expand my tomato garden

Carol Simotes: Start a career in home decorating

Lisa Harding: Stay away from men wearing all black

Grandma Marchellis: Throw away the music box