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Preparing for Pascha
Marrying into the Byzantine Orthodox Church - and then later joining an Eastern Orthodox Church with Ukranian roots - changed the way I celebrate Easter forever, especially in regards to the food we prepare and eat.
Many of these foods are rich in milk, butter, cheese, eggs, and smoked meat, all foods given up in a traditional Lenten fast.
I learned these traditions and ways to prepare these foods forty years ago, so they would become the fabric of my six children's lives - and then they prepared them with me as they were growing up.
Now that half of them are workign or have worked in food service, they are more skilled in the kitchen than I am. So now I'm the one who assists them.
And someday, God willing, they will assist their children.
Rebekah squeezes out a ball of Easter cheese before she allows it to drip dry the rest of the way.
A quart of milk and a dozen eggs heats over a makeshift double boiler for another batch of Easter cheese.
Rebekah also made three kinds of candy. We posted the recipe for chocolate truffles on the BryonySeries Sue's Diner page yesterday.
She also bought Easter candy on sale and made individual bags for all of us, including the grandchildren.
Because everyone's work and homework schedules didn't line up, we didn't have the backyard gathering at Joshua's house we had originally planned.
But a spoiling of plans cannot dampen the joy of the resurrection or cut the common thread of tradition that runs through all of us.
We all partook of the same food and rejoiced, even if that partaking and rejoicing didn't happen in the same physical space.
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"Bright" Morning Reflection
Tuesday, April 30, 2019
Memoirs and More
One of her granddaughters had approached me and asked if I would write this woman's memoirs. I almost turned it down. At the time, some tests had suggested some health concerns, I was learning a new system of page design, and I was trying to finish the last book of Before the Blood.
But as it turned out, I'd written two Herald=News stories about her in the past and, ironically, my oldest daughter is a former neighbor (I discovered that after the first story broke). And the granddaughter told me the woman herself had specifically asked for me.
So part of my first official vacation time of 2019 was spent organizing notes and working on her memoir. She's had some health issues this year, so I'm feeling an especial sense of urgency in getting it done.
Many parts of her life are heartbreaking, but through all the stories she's shared, one can see a line of strength, tenacity, and firm faith in God running through it. I'm so very glad I did not turn this project down!
As always, I've overestimated what I could accomplish. But the book is organized and divided into chapters and I'm about halfway through the first draft. I spoke with her on Sunday, and we wrote the introduction and "final thoughts." She, on her part, is gathering photos for the interior and the cover. We also discussed titles.
Considering I've also attended three nights of long church services at a church about forty-five minutes from home, spent most of a day at my son's celebrating Easter (Pascha) and two grandchildren's birthdays with my other children (and children-to-be) and grandchildren, and had to get two medical tests done for myself, I think I, overall, did pretty good.
Speaking of memoirs, I spent an hour or so on the phone with my uncle. We've gotten rather close over these past two years while addressing my father's health concerns. During this course, he also learned his wife had cancer of pancreas, and she passed early Thursday morning.
He called me on Friday afternoon and shared the mostly lovely stories about this unselfish woman, a teacher, who always saw the good in others, even the most difficult of her students. I learned how she lived and how she died.
Although I didn't help with the Easter cooking this year, I did make two trips to the grocery store with one of my sons, and we talked about some of the opportunities that's cropped up in his life.
And on a fiction note, the fourth installment of Before the Blood has my editor's notes incorporated. It's formatted, and I've checked the formatting, done a copy edit, and it's ready for upload just as soon as Rebekah is able to finish attaching all the cover pieces.
Once it KDP approves it, I'll order a proof, recheck the formatting, and do a final copy edit.
I've also uploaded all the photos and videos I took during the fun (including the elaborate egg hunt Rebekah coordinated) with family members on our "secret" Facebook page, watched some Bojack with Daniel, had some great conversations with Rebekah, and just, overall, engaged in more human interaction and less social media interaction.
I'm now back to the regular routine: refreshed, rejuvenated, and ready to write features!
Friday, April 13, 2018
Story Round-Up: Features in The Herald-News, April 1 through April 13
Of course, getting there was challenging. Two days needed to be swapped, and I spent most of Holy Saturday working and not cooking (but fortunately Joshua, Timothy, Rebekah, and Daniel were willing and able to pitch in).
Mostly I attended services, celebrated Easter with my family, and squeezed in a bit of fiction writing here and there. I returned to work refreshed and (hardly) stressed about fitting fives days-ish worth of work into three.
And look! The weekend is upon us!
Have a great Friday readers, writers, and vampire fans! :)
Non-bylined features:
http://www.theherald-news.com/lists/2018/04/01/7833dda3fbc74a7ea542868b97bf4021/index.xml
Mystery Diner: Joliet's 99 Hops House has good burgers, plenty of beers
http://www.theherald-news.com/lists/2018/04/02/87fb006dc5f04ddf9655beb302f61131/index.xml
Eastern Orthodox churches prepare for Easter
http://www.theherald-news.com/2018/04/03/eastern-orthodox-churches-prepare-for-easter/av7jyep/
http://www.theherald-news.com/2018/04/07/joliet-man-was-a-good-soul/a63pm5e/
2-Fer's Pizza & Pub in Minooka: Where pizza is buy one, get one free
Wednesday, May 4, 2016
Goodbye Old Cloth
All I have left of nine months of painstaking work when I had a baby and three rebellious homeschooled youngsters is this out of focus photo.
What is it?
It's an Easter basket cover.
When I married into the Eastern Christian church, I experienced a whole new set of rich Easter traditions and foods. After weeks of strict Lenten fasting, a variety of certain foods (with special recipes to accompany them) were prepared on Holy Saturday, gathered into a decorated basket, and brought to church at midnight (along with a white candle) for resurrection services, to be blessed after services.
Draped over many of these baskets were hand-embroidered cloths. Some of these were very old, family heirlooms.
I wanted to make such a cloth.
Because I suffered from severe all-day sickness with my pregnancies, my sister taught me to crosstitch to pass the time. I made one item for the house and many gifts. But with each passing Easter, what I really wanted to make was this cloth. However, the work and time required to effect it was complicated and beyond my abilities.
After my fourth child was born, I decided the cloth wasn't going to make itself. It took nine months, but I finished it by Holy Week and brought it to a local seamstress to hem. I got it back on Holy Saturday 1991, the eleventh hour, so to speak.
It's gone. We lost it in the move.
The loss bites.
This year marked the third year of no cloth.
Year one we were at my mother's and figured it was packed somewere.
Year two, we had gone through every box, and it was nowhere.
Year three, well, what can I say?
Yes, I know the celebration is more important than textile and colorful thread. But a lot of love for meaning behind the "Christ is Risen!" and for my family, for whom I intended this to be a keepsake, went into every stitch.
It will be hard to replace.
Monday, May 2, 2016
Easter Homily by St. John Chrysostom
Easter Homily
By St. John Chrysostom
Come you all: enter into the joy of your Lord. You the first and you the last, receive alike your reward; you rich and you poor, dance together; you sober and you weaklings, celebrate the day; you who have kept the fast and you who have not, rejoice today. The table is richly loaded: enjoy its royal banquet. The calf is a fatted one: let no one go away hungry. All of you enjoy the banquet of faith; all of you receive the riches of his goodness. Let no one grieve over his poverty, for the universal kingdom has been revealed; let no one weep over his sins, for pardon has shone from the grave; let no one fear death, for the death of our Saviour has set us free: He has destroyed it by enduring it, He has despoiled Hades by going down into its kingdom, He has angered it by allowing it to taste of his flesh.
When Isaias foresaw all this, he cried out: "O Hades, you have been angered by encountering Him in the nether world." Hades is angered because frustrated, it is angered because it has been mocked, it is angered because it has been destroyed, it is angered because it has been reduced to naught, it is angered because it is now captive. It seized a body, and, lo! it encountered heaven; it seized the visible, and was overcome by the invisible.
O death, where is your sting? O Hades, where is your victory? Christ is risen and you are abolished. Christ is risen and the demons are cast down. Christ is risen and the angels rejoice. Christ is risen and life is freed. Christ is risen and the tomb is emptied of the dead: for Christ, being risen from the dead, has become the Leader and Reviver of those who had fallen asleep. To Him be glory and power for ever and ever. Amen.




















